Christmas 2011
Christmas is around the corner and living in the desert it’s
hard to get in the mood. There are no, no real cold days although we consider
70 cold. I’ve not been in the Christmas mood until I started baking cookies
yesterday. I continued today, wanted a friend to have some like I make every
year.
I thought back to what Christmas used to be like when the
girls where small, back when I lived close to my sister and I remembered many
of them going back to my Childhood. We had a real tree with candles on it. Being
next to the youngest we had to go to our parent’s bedroom on the 24
th
when the tree was put up. Our presents were cookies Mama had spend weeks
baking, perhaps an orange or some chocolate, that was when we were back in the
city.
I remember telling Audrey to take her sisters for a walk on
the 24
th, that’s when we open presents. When they came back Santa
had been there. The youngest asked me year after year “where were you when he
came”? I was in the bathroom I would answer year after year.
I remember going to Church Christmas Eve with Audrey, Jason
and Alexander, we did not know that we were late and that our paper had the
wrong time. We arrived in time for Communion, they passed a platter with Wavers
and Jason said “oh goodie, Matzo crackers”, who was I to correct that. Later
“wow that’s a little glass of juice”…After Communion the Pastor blessed the
offerings ending with “Jesus Christ, Amen!” When four year old Alexander piped
up and said “Mommie, the man said a bad word”. We didn’t exactly flee, but we
left as fast as we could.
Christmas in Evergreen the year Pedro our 29 year old friend
from Venezuela decided to come spend a month with us. He was overjoyed being
knee deep in snow and couldn’t stop making snow angels. We had a great time
celebrating the Season.
Norris, Tennessee with Christine, Frankie and Joey, we’d
moved from Colorado and I couldn’t find the ornaments. I sprayed leaves of
Holly and any other leave I could find, pine cones silver, gold and copper. It
was the best tree ever.
I remember when Nikki, Eric, Ella and Riley visited us here
in Lake Havasu City. The twins are now fifteen they were six at the time. After
opening their presents they were not happy and my daughter wondered why. I
pointed out that all they got were educational toys and not much in the way of
fun stuff. We had a great time with them.
Most of our Christmases were spend with Audrey, Jason and
Alexander. We always had the Menorah up as well remembering what no one should
forget. They often made the trip by train and I will be grateful until my dying
day for the wonderful time we all had. It was a privilege for me to be with the
boys from the time they were small and this tie is still firmly in place and
always will be.
I remember the year Nate gave me a hand made Dulcimer when
we lived in Tennessee, he said lessons came with it but an hour and a half
away. I was too scared of failure, tried it when I was alone and in the end I
gave it my son-in-law Eric who I hope plays it now and then and that it didn't end up in a garage sale, if he had to or wanted to sell that would be ok, it would still be painful, but once you give a present away the choice of what that person will with it are no longer up to the giver.
There were other
great presents from Nate and as life winds down there are still great times
ahead and today, remember all this and more I am thankful for all of life’s
blessings.
