Sunday, July 25, 2010

Delete Key

In the 80's an acquaintance turned into my stalker, I never figured out why. She used to come to the house and look into the first floor windows, which reached ground level. I closed the shutters and hid in back of the house. Then letters started to arrive, I opened one and pitched into the fireplace as well as any that came after that. My daughter asked me why I would throw letters into the fire without reading them. I explained to her that just because you get a letter in the mail does not mean you have to read it. Then flowers started to arrive which I asked the florist to take back, and finally a funeral wreath was delivered. I didn't accept it and asked both florists in town never to deliver anything to our home. 

With the arrival of the computer I often find myself getting unwanted email. I used to open it all and my reward was a computer full of worms and viruses. After paying for repeated computer repair I decided that I didn't have to open email from people I don't know. That's when I fell in love with the "delete" key. When I open email whether from friends or family that begin with "how dare you" I read no further and just click my beloved "delete" key. There is a certain power in that or perhaps it is called "Self-preservation"? The positive thing about that is that at least you can't get funeral wreaths through the computer.

2 comments:

  1. You are such a good writer, Karin! Love your sense of humor! I guess one has to know you... I'm with you on the junk 'snail mail' as well as the computer. I've been dealing with a Mac virus- terrible thing because of it! But my problem is sometimes I wish I'd delete after the "How dare you's" or some other such thing! But "Curiosity kills this Kat", unfortunately gets the best of me, and then I'm in too deep tensing like crazy. I'll take your expert advice...Any for those crazed phone calls? ha ha

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  2. Ha ha ha Kate, here's my advice on phone calls, "hang up", that's what I did to my sister which prompted the email "how dare you" which I deleted without reading further. I have a lot of curiosity, but draw the line at rude or hurtful or just plain ole mean or psychotic.

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